Humans are curious by nature. The man likes challenges. This search for what lies beyond the fence is what drives us, moves us and makes possible new discoveries every day. The problem is that it took us forever to differentiate the search for new experiences, knowledge and challenges of finding new people. Cast the first stone who never spared a possible big love to fall for those who could not care less condition. And what does this have to do with the search for the new challenge? Everything.
There is a law that changes from round play you played as a child who attends the bars until today: if one party exposes his feelings before there was indeed a relationship, you may not roll anything. That’s because the person in question is “delivering everything from pan.” Because it is “easy”. And then the conquest not worth it anymore. How many people can say “I like you very much” on the second date? Some people must be turning and thinking, “wow, but that person has very fond of another on the second date?”. Yes, it happens to the best pubs and even with the best botequeiros. Has it happened to you, probably.
You know that guy who always helped you in school late to matter? That linking to your house every day after lunch? He was cute, cool, but you only see him as a friend and confidant. He wanted to be much more than that. You told him about the boy’s futsal team did not even know of its existence, by whom you were crush. And put the boy so sweet and helpful friend in zone. Remember that girl, that pretty dress of samba? Nice smile, funny, have a chat head. You stayed that night and after a week, she told you something was going on inside, confessed that he was feeling something more for you. That was enough. Suddenly, the pretty girl, the one you thought “how lucky I have been with her,” becomes just one more. You think, “Is she really all that?” And goes to the next one you’ll torture a little more.
It is clear that this is not a generalization, but just between us, you know that it happens a lot. The concept of looking for something challenging is distorted. And in my opinion there is no greater challenge than indulging in a relationship. Win someone everyday. Search other what you aroused the interest is no easy task. Moreover, the initial pleasure of conquest is ephemeral, while the lasting achievement may be eternal. I’m not saying that everyone should be in relationships, only that if our eye shines only by what is beyond the reach of fingers, something must be wrong. Be careful not to end up empty handed and frustrated heart.
One day we learn just how tasty like who likes us. Maybe it’s time you give a chance for those who wants to do well? Do not undermine your happiness. Valuing who is on your side, who cares for you, is one of the ways to be happy. And as each person has several facets, the possibilities are endless. You can simply discover that someone on your side is an inexhaustible source of exploitation. In a good way, of course. A sea of smells, gestures, caresses, thoughts, dreams and expectations available for those who dare to venture. So always remember: before looking at the neighbor’s roses, make sure that there are no sunflowers in your garden.